Yes, it’s a reality that we sometimes click not only on people but on football teams, colours, organizations, some brands and on some simple things. But will it last long? ‘Click’ is only beginning but sharing something, especially difficulties make people closer. People who share the same experience form deeper friendships than people who like the same kind of likings.
Secondly, as it’s written in the book, it’s important to be under the spotlight or in the centre (of attention). There might have been a lot of talents that couldn’t become popular or wasn’t accepted as great because they weren’t in the winning team, organization or country. There could have been more talented players than Pele or Maradona but he was born in Africa or Asia and his nation team didn’t show up in the world cup and didn’t win one. Or, we consider somebody as our best friend but there may be somebody or even a lot of people that could match us better than our best friend. He is also likely to be really the best one. But something is sure, he has been around and he is really good. You can’t deny ‘Click’ but spending a lot of time together seems ‘Double (or multiple) Click’ to me.
By Ibrahim Can Korkut
Dear Ibrahim,
ReplyDeleteI can't but agree with you that click is necessary at the beginning of the relation but with time you will realize if you clicked correctly or not.Men can click each other because they support the same team but it is not sure that their relation will be as tight on other matters.
What's fascinating to me is how people seem to be able to click with everyone all the time called as social chameleons, able to adapt themselves to any situation and person by expressing sympathy and empathy with them in ways that are appropriate to the social context. Unfortunately, not all people are the same ,not everyone has such ability and this is the reason some people are more successful.Any how is well known for goodd performance good team work is needed and for this good team work this famous CLICK is a must.
ReplyDeleteHi Mr. Ibrahim
ReplyDeleteYou are right. We sometimes click on colors. brands, some little things. Not only adult people, even children click with them too. My daughter put on only purple color clothesfor last 3 years. I didn`t convince her and she clicked with her friends whose put on purple clothes. it was very funny.