BOOK.3. Click, The Magic Instant Connection
The dream of every person is to be successful in his/her life.Someone wants success in the job experience, someone else in love. As people are very special creatures they can't choose what kind of success is better than what. We are a little bit envious and we want them both.
AT WORK:
When we go to work early in different companies we want to be noticed by our supervisors and convince them that we are the best. What we do???? Hmmmm...interesting question :)).
According to me in general employees are divided into four groups:
1) those who always complains ,having the others attention only due to their sad stories or stories that shows the past difficulties.;
2) those who have energy and know how to behave and what to say in every situation and/or place; they can adapt everywhere;they know very well how their colleagues or supervisors understand things and how they want the job to be made and use this issue in their favor;
3)those who just work as machinery and do not know anything else .Those people are like ghost,nobody notice them in the companies.
4)those well located,which means those who have their offices very close to the higher management and have possibility to be noticed even just for a greeting by them.
The most successful categories are the second one and the forth one that click on the supervisors having much opportunities to develop the career. The first group is the second in ranking of success,but the third group are those that may be called "the losers".
IN LOVE:
Nevertheless work is important ,love is very crucial in humans lives. As the song says:"...All u need is love..." sometimes this become a motto for each of us. Some use their friendships to create relationships some others go in pubs and bars trying to find somebody to notice them in the smoky air and loud music.The are some others that meet accidentally in restaurasnts,shops,offices,cinemas,etc that just get the click on each other without any intervention or help. They are the help of themselves. It is needed only a sight,a touched hand or the smell of the parfume to make two people attract the atention of each other.
What do you want?
A Successful work life?
A succesfull love?
Both???
I am choosing the third choice to complete my happiness! ;-)
Ortenca Tuci (OTU)
AT WORK:
When we go to work early in different companies we want to be noticed by our supervisors and convince them that we are the best. What we do???? Hmmmm...interesting question :)).
According to me in general employees are divided into four groups:
1) those who always complains ,having the others attention only due to their sad stories or stories that shows the past difficulties.;
2) those who have energy and know how to behave and what to say in every situation and/or place; they can adapt everywhere;they know very well how their colleagues or supervisors understand things and how they want the job to be made and use this issue in their favor;
3)those who just work as machinery and do not know anything else .Those people are like ghost,nobody notice them in the companies.
4)those well located,which means those who have their offices very close to the higher management and have possibility to be noticed even just for a greeting by them.
The most successful categories are the second one and the forth one that click on the supervisors having much opportunities to develop the career. The first group is the second in ranking of success,but the third group are those that may be called "the losers".
IN LOVE:
Nevertheless work is important ,love is very crucial in humans lives. As the song says:"...All u need is love..." sometimes this become a motto for each of us. Some use their friendships to create relationships some others go in pubs and bars trying to find somebody to notice them in the smoky air and loud music.The are some others that meet accidentally in restaurasnts,shops,offices,cinemas,etc that just get the click on each other without any intervention or help. They are the help of themselves. It is needed only a sight,a touched hand or the smell of the parfume to make two people attract the atention of each other.
What do you want?
A Successful work life?
A succesfull love?
Both???
I am choosing the third choice to complete my happiness! ;-)
Ortenca Tuci (OTU)
Hi ortenca...
ReplyDeleteThis is a great comment about click. when I was reading I liked very much and I agree with you. It is a nice observation separating four categories. This situation is not present only working places but also in our master class. . we met with some of our friends at first lesson and now with some of them we keep on the dialog out of lessons and with some of them we only say symbolical hello.. most of our friends join the lessons after their works and they look tired. In spite of being tired, some of our friends always show their full of energy and smile faces and they have conversation with everybody. Finally we CLICK them at the moment.
Hi Ortenca,
ReplyDeleteI am agree with you that the third group are those that may be called "the losers".I can bring to you a true example:In an office start work 4 employees in the same time one of them was like the third group and nobody notice them in the office and after 3 years its salary was 400 USD less than the others one, and this happen because hi didn't click to manager like the other.
Hello Ortenca
ReplyDeleteI think "clicking" is mostly related to the actions of people, different characters, movements, positions in company, well-being etc...
But it can also happen to click somebody that you classify as a loser too. "The click" is not something that you can control on yourself
Regards
Florian Shushku