Hi,
In my Opinion certain behaviors and factors can help predict whether or not we will hit it off in any situations.
Most of us have had the experience of "just clicking" with someone — feeling like we could talk to him for the rest, or like we must have known each other during past lives. Usually, it just happens naturally, in a way that seems almost magical.We did not need some meetings…the connection developed over the eye contact and few gazes. We tend to trust them, no matter how often we meet or for how long we have known them. So, what it is and why it happens that we strike a chord with only a few strangers out of the hundreds.
I experienced something of this sort. Over the months of traveling from the place where I put up to my workplace, I have seen this boy very often. We see each other quite often, as we come to the same place every morning for office, though we do not travel in the same bus always(of course, we got to see each other for the first time while traveling in the same bus). We have never talked directly, but I did not know why the boy used to give some friendly gazes. I might be that friendly stranger for him. He would always look at me and pass a sweet smile. I could never figure out why he acted like this. Eventually, I too develop a warm connection with his gazes, a result of his sweet gestures.
Thank you
With Best Regards,
Elda
Hi Elda ,
ReplyDeleteI like very much your story and of course I appreciate that you are sharing this experience with us, eventually we all have s.th similar like your experience in office in school in street but is a good feeling, so You just click with this boy - and as you said we could never figure out why he or her or they acted in that way- "just happen"
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Nereida
Hellow everybody
ReplyDeleteI think that this theme is quite important as it creates a way of thinking on behaviour itself. There are many different types of persons in the world and depending on how these people have been raised, their enviroment, their options and their caracter some are more "Clicable" than others. when I say clicable I mean that some are more prone to be accepted or socialable than others. In my opinion being able to train yourself in adapting to changes and by this being yourself capable of changing increases someones capabilities of sucess.
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Hi to everyone,
ReplyDeleteI agree with the upper opinion that "click"ing is so important and part of our everyday life. But as Mr. Rezart Sulo meant there is a group of people that are "clicable" than others. e.g. recently I have add the chance to have some training at work and I have realised that all the instructors that came they were so clicable that everyone from the participants liked and enjoyed learning from them. So, here I want to emphasize that actually "click" is a process that can be learnt, of course there is not an exact rule or formula like in chemistry or physics but there are rules that make you feel comfortable to have the right "click". Or is like a job interview where you are aware that to take this position you have to have a click with the person interviewing you so what you do is you try your maximum to have the famous "click" with these people.
Have a good weekend
Hello Rezart,
ReplyDeleteagainst you I think that every person have sth clicable but to find what, makes the difference between each other so now I am agree with your
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